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February 15, 2025

The YES Engineer: The Unexpected Upside of Agreeing to the Absurd

The Professional Skeptics

Engineers, product managers, technical leads – we are, by training and disposition, professional skeptics. We are paid to understand constraints: the immutable laws of physics, the slightly-less-immutable characteristics of our current tech stack, the frustratingly mutable whims of project budgets and timelines. When confronted with a new business requirement, particularly one that seems outlandish, our pattern-matching machinery kicks in. We access cached experiences of past failures, estimate the combinatorial explosion of integration points, mentally tally the technical debt incurred, and often, quite rationally, arrive at “No.” Or perhaps a polite variant: “That’s infeasible,” “That’s out of scope,” “The ROI is questionable.”

The Danger of Expertise

This skepticism is valuable; it prevents wasted effort on initiatives doomed from the start. Yet, it harbors a subtle danger: the conflation of current difficulty with fundamental impossibility. We risk becoming victims of our own expertise, trapped within a local optimum defined by existing tools and architectures. The focus on the bottom line – stability, cost, predictability – can inadvertently blind us to paradigm-shifting opportunities visible only to those less encumbered by implementation details, those focused squarely on the top line or a radically different future state. What if the ‘crazy shit’ proposed by business isn’t merely crazy, but a poorly articulated glimpse of a necessary evolution?

The Power of “Yes”

What happens if, instead of defaulting to “No,” we internally default to “Assume this is possible; what would need to be true?” This isn’t about making reckless commitments; it’s about adopting a different initial stance for exploration. It’s about treating perceived constraints less as immutable laws and more as suggestions, potentially outdated or circumventable. My own experience suggests this counter-intuitive approach can yield disproportionate returns.

The Adaptive Data Bridge

For instance, during one of my first stints as a Product Manager, a business head posed a question born from sheer operational frustration: Why did integrating each new client system have to be a bespoke, time-consuming project? “Can’t we build an adaptive data bridge?” he asked. “One that works everywhere, with every schema, maybe even letting the client do some of the work?” The immediate engineering reaction was dismissal – grounded in the reality of wildly disparate data formats and the known complexities of ETL. It seemed naive. But the desire – reduced friction, increased scalability – wasn’t impossible, just outside the current paradigm. Internally, I decided to say “Yes” to the possibility. I sat down with an architect, and we started designing from the premise that such a bridge could exist. This led us to explore dynamic schema inference, configurable transformation pipelines, and client-side mapping participation. Developers were initially skeptical, naturally resistant to the unfamiliar complexity. But as I pushed the vision and we built it out, the system proved its worth, demonstrably reducing integration timelines. The ‘impossible’ requirement, embraced rather than rejected, forced us/me to invent a new, more scalable approach.

Zero-Knowledge Innovation

A similar dynamic played out years later. I was asked by a CEO – this was well before Web3 hype – to architect a system where even we, the operators, couldn’t access the sensitive client data flowing through it. He wanted something akin to Zero-Knowledge privacy guarantees. My ‘rational’ technical brain immediately started formulating explanations about centralized trust models and the impracticality of applying complex cryptography like ZKPs in that context. His specific request might have been imprecise, but the underlying goal of provable, extreme data privacy was powerful. I chose to engage with the possibility rather than the immediate technical objections. This led me down the path of researching and ultimately architecting a blockchain-based solution incorporating ZK principles for the platform. It was arguably ahead of its time, perhaps over-engineered for the precise requirements of that moment. But as the regulatory landscape shifted with GDPR and data sovereignty became critical, that ‘unreasonable’ requirement I’d said ‘yes’ to exploring became a profound strategic differentiator.

Constraint as Catalyst

Perhaps the most intense example of constraint forcing innovation occurred within a Private Equity firm. The mandate was severe: analyze hundreds of portfolio products within a couple of weeks to find significant, repeatable cost-saving opportunities. Manual analysis was out of the question; the scale and speed requirements were absurd. The expected response was likely pushback. Instead, the challenge fell largely on me, and my internal response was, “Okay, YES. How?”. This immediately rendered traditional methods obsolete and forced me to think algorithmically. I had to rapidly develop heuristics and patterns to automatically detect inefficiencies – cloud waste, licensing overhead, organizational anti-patterns – by analyzing vast amounts of billing, operational, and other data across disparate companies. What started as a pressure-cooker assignment became a powerful engine for automated cost optimization. The core methodologies I developed then became foundational for service offerings that generated substantial value. The sheer absurdity of the constraint mandated a leap into automation.

The Pattern of Possibility

These experiences, and others I’ve encountered involving challenges like deploying novel infrastructure or finding elusive alpha in trading data (often under NDA), consistently point to the power of treating constraints as malleable. The seemingly unreasonable request isn’t necessarily a sign of ignorance, but often a powerful forcing function. It disrupts incremental thinking, challenges ingrained assumptions, and compels exploration beyond the comfortable boundaries of the known. It pushes us off the well-trodden path of optimizing the existing and onto the potentially rocky, but far more rewarding, terrain of inventing the new.

Discerning the Truly Impossible

Of course, this advocacy for embracing the seemingly impossible requires discernment. There exists a distinct, albeit less common, category of request that stems not from ambitious vision but from dysfunction – the “self-saboteurs.” These are the stakeholders whose requirements shift capriciously with internal politics, who lack a coherent end-goal beyond asserting authority, or whose proposals are fundamentally incoherent or actively detrimental, defying not just current technical constraints but basic logic or business viability. Saying “Yes” in these scenarios isn’t exploring possibility; it’s enabling chaos or participating in organizational theatre. Recognizing these situations – distinguishing the genuinely destructive request from the merely audacious one – remains a crucial, if sometimes difficult, judgment call.

Balancing Optimism and Realism

This isn’t a call for reckless optimism or ignoring genuine technical hurdles. Due diligence is essential. Some ideas are fundamentally flawed. But the crucial shift is in the initial mindset. Before reflexively deploying the technically sound “No,” I‘ve found immense value in rigorously exploring the “How?”. By mapping the solution space as if the goal were achievable, identifying the true barriers (which are often technological gaps, economic thresholds, or simply our own lack of imagination, rather than fundamental laws), we engage in a more productive conversation.

The Beginner’s Mind Advantage

Often, the individuals proposing these ‘impossible’ futures aren’t being irrational; they are simply operating without the anchoring bias of our accumulated technical experience. They possess a form of beginner’s mind (Shoshin). Our role, then, is not merely to be the guardians of present feasibility, but to be the architects of future possibility. Taking the ‘crazy’ seriously, long enough to dissect it and find the non-obvious path, is frequently where the most significant breakthroughs lie. The limit, more often than not, is just a line I’ve learned I can help redraw.

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